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[블로그 글] [QnA] 내면을 강하게 (0) 2019/07/13 AM 12:23

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What's up, mike. I wonder, i wonder. Here's the question. How to be strong and good at the same time? Admit or not, sometimes 'power' seems to drive us, a human being, bad. Well, i don't want to say it is the fixed fact, and i know NOT everybody is going to be a pain in the 'A' when they have power(physical, money, honor, fame whatever). But i guess being strong, getting the power can be a great temptation like a marshmallow. How many people are spoiled after their success?  How many people become arrogant after their achievement? We see a lot. We don't have see something amazing cases. Let me give you a situation. If i have a problem with someone who is weaker, way weaker than me but smarter, what should i do for my benefit? Talking, discussion or argument? It sounds nice but none of them is not the easiest way. Fist of fury, i have 'the key'.

 

Yes, it is not good way. We should be a good man, right? We are training to be strong and we try to be humble. Sound body, sound mind. It is easy to say, but hard to do and harder to be. I believe being strong means being generous. That is kind of noblesse oblige. The Q is how. Even i'm not that strong so i don't have to worry about it, i just want to THINK and share this with you.

 

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I really appreciate your thoughts on this man. You're thinking deep brother and that's really good

 

To me, to be strong names the ability to Express who I am without resistance. Resistance means thoughts in my head like doubt, fear, judgements and so on and also feelings in my body like nervousness, stress, anxiety and so on. If I am strong, then none of those resistance will be there and I can express myself. Expressing myself means sharing my thoughts with people without those resistance, doing what I want to do and create in this world. Most people have so much resistance and from the resistance, they think that they need to be stronger on the outside in order to overcome these resistance that are actually on the inside

 

But when they still hold these resistance on the inside which we can really call fear, all the strength that they build on the outside does not help. Once in awhile, somebody builds so much strength and power on the outside like money, physical strength, status and so on that they finally are able to let go of the fear on the inside. But sometimes a person that builds all of that power on the outside never actually let's go of the fear on the inside. This is when you have people in power that are very abusive with it.

 

Building inner strength is real power and is considered self-mastery. The ability to control our mind add to control our body is the most powerful thing that any human can do for themselves. From there whether or not they want to make money or create anything, it is now possible because they have control over the one variable that is doing it all, themselves.

 

Is somebody has no fear, then they will not attack somebody because they are not threatened. Even if the person is trying to attack them, they may still not retaliate because they do not feel threatened. They are that strong inside. Like an ant that bites you and you are not afraid of it so therefore you can let it run off or just simply walk away. But somebody who has a lot of fear may not only killed this one ant, but we'll go get the ant killer and destroy the whole entire Ant mount. Then they will call the exterminator to come to the house and sign a 12-month contract to come every month to spray pesticide everywhere to kill everything else too. This is the difference between somebody who lives in fear verses a person who is fearless and has real inner strength.of course it's a random example but I'm sure you get the point

 

Read the book power of Now by Eckhart Tolle. It's a good start to understanding true power that lies within each of us

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